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  • Topic of this Week: "EMOTIONAL DEPENDENCE (August 25, 2019)"

    People often confuse independence  with the ability to feed themselves only. In actual reality,  independence doesn’t necessarily mean being emotionally independent.
    So what is emotional dependence? To put it simply, emotional dependence  just as dangerous as drug addiction; hard as you may try, you fail to  give up a partner who mistreat you or your emotional state depends a lot  on how others treat you.
    I used to hear of a female professor,  who failed to abandon her husband although he beat her often. Later, I  learned that in the past, her father left his wife and his children, for  which she partly blamed herself. The break-up with the first husband  confirmed her feeling that she was not worth being loved. I am convinced  that her situation where the emotional independence has been long lost,  is obvious due to her troubled past experience.
    We can see many  other cases of emotional dependence in our real life. Some people never  cease to moan about being uncared for or spend hours longing for  messages from boyfriends or girlfriends without focusing on their study  or work. Also, some people easily lose temper at their colleagues’  feedback however constructive the comments are. When our emotional  states are vulnerable to any external forces, our life will be flung  into the world of turbulence where peace and happiness are never to be  found.
    What do you think? Come to Advance Hanoi this Sunday to voice your opinion and have fruitful discussion.


    QUESTIONS FOR DISCUSSION:
    1. What is emotional dependence in your own words? Give some examples of emotional dependence you know.
    2. How many types of emotional dependence are there? What type does great harm to your love life and career path?
    3. What are signs of emotional dependence?
    4. What are the causes of emotional dependence? To what extent does fear play a part in provoking emotional dependence?
    5. How can we achieve emotional independence?


    REFERENCES:
    https://exploringyourmind.com/3-types-emotional-dependence/
    https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/evolution-the-self/201904/are-you-too-emotionally-dependent-your-partner
    https://www.wikihow.com/Overcome-Emotional-Dependency


    Prepared by: May Ng

     

     

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    When should you change your job? (January 6, 2018)

    (08:09:53 AM 04/01/2019)

     There are many times in your life you feel the urge to change jobs to get rid of the current boring situation, or sometimes you wonder if you should create a challenge for yourself to generate an opportunity to enhance your career? All you need is a suitable time. But how can you know when it is the suitable time, when is the thought of being bored at work is only temporary sometimes.   

    Changing career has never been easy. Because when deciding to change job that means you have to change your familiar environment, get rid of your habits, and require a lot of effort to adapt to new areas, to absorb new skills. So there exists tremendous risk of failure. Especially, when you are married people with pressure to earn money to take care of your lovers or to feed your children.  
    On average, a person can change from 3 to 5 jobs in their life for a very simple reason: they don't have the right choice for themselves. Although they have researched and followed the instructions to choose a suitable job, but it is unlikely that the job will be sustainable. Making the wise decision in your career move is the best way to ensure a successful career and a bright future.  
    Let’s come to Advance this week to find out more information!!!  
     
    QUESTIONS TO PONDER:  
    1. What are the signs for a career change?  
    2. What are the benefits when we change the job? And the challenges?   
    3. How long should you stay at a job?  
    4. What is the necessary preparation for a career move?   
    5. “The people who change their jobs more often tends to be more successful than others”. What do you think about this statement?
     
     
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